The boyfriend made me do this

I can't actually believe i'm now a blogger :-)

I've read quite a bit of blogs in the recent past and found it quite interesting and amazing the "gists" in these blogs.

Anyway the boyfriend made me do this.....

I'm not particularly poetic or anything but i'm just going to expressing myself on this thing cos my friends have had their ears full on these man matters of mine.

Anyway(again :-) i was feeling mushy yesterday so i went to see the boyfriend.. we started off pretty well until he refused outrightly to cuddle me.

Now here's the problem, it's not the first time he's refused to be "cuddly" but last nite i had had it!!! so i said let's talk and we start talking and he says to me "U know i always pray i never constitute a nuisance to people" and i say "so where's this leading to?" and he says "sometimes i feel u border on constituting a nuisance"

I was so shocked i got up and lay the bed(i never do this you see... ) while laying the bed i find and earring that wasn't mine(obviously).... i throw it at him and i leave.

I give him some time thinking he'd say he was sorry etc etc

But he didn't... so i call him to ask him if he really meant that and so on. He says not exactly but sometimes i do stifle him. Now if we'd been dating for just six months i'd have walked. But this is over 3 years of my life investments were talking about here.....

I still can't believe it actually all the while i thought i was being "lovey dovey" and giving him pleasure he was just tolerating it.

Now we've had many issues but this time i'm just going to crawl into my shell reevaluate myself and generally just see if it's worth it to forge ahead or just look for another mr right.

Next issue do i or do i not broach the "famous earring" issue?

i hope someone actually leaves a comment

Cheers....

N.B- i hope blogging will be just as much fun writing as it was reading anonymously!!!!!!!!!