What a day!!!!!!!!

Today started off quite "terrible" I got a tummy upset from midnight and couldn't sleep because I was busy wondering where my younger brother (who refused to come home) was all night.

Finally got some sleep between 5.30 am thereabout and 6.30am. Rushed to the bath and drove to work. Thankfully there wasn't heavy traffic.

Got here and tummy was still running!!! Endured the pain which further escalated when my new Oga decided to use me as "i'm your Oga" practise today.

There was a little communication mix-up and she went into a frenzy, yelling and yelling and crowned it all by saying "she didn't like people lying". Meaning "this girl u dey lie".

All the while your truly was praying that the poop will not start dripping down because my tummy was swirling, the more she yelled at me. LOL

Thankfully there were no accidents.

The day has just ended and i'm only just getting a breather

It truly has been one of those days and in fact week where all sorts happen to you and many things/tasks just didn't get completed. I have sleep deprivation, it's cold, and in all

I'm just thankful it's Friday!!!!!

This is just hilarious!!!

I just saw an ad in the dailies congratulating Mrs Ndi Okereke-Onyiuke on some award she got and it was tagged

" Congratulations of the highest order"

Can you just beat that i'm still laughing here LOL


Today has been quite amusing i've thought of all sorts of things to blog about and alas they've all flown outta the window(more like my head)

Maybe it's because......

Because......

;)

What's in your handbag?

Though it actually is as big and heavy as "hand luggage"?????????? LOL

I looked at the contents of my bag over the last weekend and i was quite "shocked" at the load in it....

They seem many but i'm sure i "need" all of them

I trust that it's the day i lighten it, that i will need something i just removed!!!

Anyway here's the list of what's in my "N15,000 leather bag from Italy" today:

3 notebooks-one is new i'm trying to start using it ;) and hoping to discard one of the old ones

My make up purse

2 sets of keys- Car and room

A novel( trying to develop a reading culture you see) LOL

A comb

Hand cream

Powder

Hand mirror

Small umbrella

Perfume

Cheque book

I just added Hand sanitizer(too many germs everywhere you see LOL)

My wallet

ID card and pens

So that's the list for today.

Not too much yeah?

Ok, i tag Overwhelmed, Afro babe and everyone else who stops by this page.

Let's see what's in your handbag/luggage LOL

My boss hates me!!!!!

That must be the ONLY reason he would assign me a task that involves preparing a document, a powerpoint presentation and printing several manuals at closing time!!!!

I'm just so so raving upset right now....

Hissing so loudly, all to no avail here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And to think i've been lounging for most of the afternoon

Why in blazes??????????

Do people respond/answer " I'm fine" when you say hello to them???????????

It keeps occuring and it just drives me nuts, this afternoon again


I said "hello" to a colleague and she responded 'I'm fine'

Arrrrgggghhhhhh

Sitting here as nervous as a bat!!!

Ok so there's this guy,

We were in the same university even though we were not friends

Then fate made us serve(NYSC) in the same town and his house was around the corner from mine

We started talking at the tail end of the year and became "friends"

He kinda indicated interest, in that one night, that he came to see me and it got so late he had to crash in my room and of course attempted to shag me(Naturally)

We didn't do it anyway, and even when I had to crash at his, nothing happene.

Many years later, we met up again and have started talking

He has invited me out a couple of times and says we can always end up at his place if it's too late for me to go home and so that we can catch up on our lives i presume.(He works pretty late most times)

He makes many jokes about marrying me

He's cute and has a steady job. I'm suspect he could make a good boyfriend/partner and maybe even husband!!!

Last week, i was in a training near his house and i asked if i could stay at his to avoid driving from extreme of Lagos to another

He said fine and seemed excited about it

I backed out last minute because i was nervous about what could transpire if i spent a week in his room

I called him last night to apologise for not coming over like i said i would( i had not told him i changed my mind and he had called and smsed(hope that's correct) all week to find out if i was fine and still coming over.

I offered to hook up with him tonight

It probably will be too late to go back home

I'm nervous about sleeping at his

Anxiety has not allowed me get up from here to head out to meet him

My fingers are even twitching

Good luck to me this evening;)

You cannot force a horse to drink.....

I'm just here to rant this morning.

I've got a friend, we're pretty close.

Over the last year and a half, she's been through immense pressures and challenges in every area of her life

I have been as supportive as i could especially because i was also challenged in some of those of those areas. I looked at my situation and dusted myself, made ammends were necessary and i'm better(definetely) than i was then.

Now because, i "love" my friend, i have provided steady support via a listening ear, actions where necessary and physical presence over and above the fact that i had to neglect family and friends sometimes during this period.....

Despite the fact that she has several annoying habits that i do not like, i have tolerated her excesses all the while gently correcting and giving her tips to get out of the challenges.

Recently, i realised that half my "advice" was not being heeded to and i seemed to be pouring water into a basket. Moreso, i was "taking panadol for another person's headache" because the issues seemed to bother me much more than the person actually involved. In that i would be spurred to action and she would sit around making a mess of things.

So i withdrew, and folded my arms and was watching from the sidelines even though it really hurt to do so. But there was nothing more i could do, i was getting drained from the issues and i don't/didn't think i was really making an impact.

Now i'm even more irritated because last week she had some new issues and needs to make a "drastic decision". I took time out to detail a few pointers/options to help her make plans and decide on her next line of action and days after, all she has had to say to me is that " she wants to buy a new handset!!!!" .Then she also showed me an unreasonably priced pair of slippers that she wanted to buy but it's not her size so she has been forced to return it. This is someone who has deep money issues oh.

I'm so ticked off right now honestly

I just opened my mailbox expecting to at least get some feedback from her on the issues and alas there was none!!!!

I'm so upset,

Lesson learnt - You can only take a horse to the river we can't force it to drink!!!!

So much for trying to help your friends!!!! :(