Tuesday, 10 May 2016

Breather part 2

so far so good with this staying at home meme. I've spent a lot of the time musing about the past though and I am filled with many regrets at the wasted time and lost opportunities because I just have not been settled enough to enjoy or even live life as if were.
been so so consumed by my challenges at work and at home. Sad part is the effect some of these issues seem to have impacted on my boys. God helping me I am slowly and indeed steadily giving my life a shape once again. The house is being restored.... Finally I must add! Didn't realise the heap of junk I had accumulated and was hanging onto. Spoilt appliances that I could have repaired or discarded. Chai its sad when one is in a marriage but not married!


This late Mrs Shonde matter though not a new type of scenario these days has left me pondering at what point exactly does love turn to hate so much so that there will be physical engagement until the other party gets hurt. I initially assumed that it was a fight gone wrong.as per they were arguing and a few slaps occured and she rushed him but fell and broke her skull. Then I stumbled or rather joined a forum where many victims of domestic violence are sharing their experiences. A couple of them have said their spouses actually indicated that they so hated them I.e the wives they wanted to kill them. One said her hubby asked the children to visit a neighbour and he doused her with fuel then lit a cigarette. Another said the hubby keeps aiming for her face with a cutlass. All sorts of horrendous experiences out there. I just don't understand how a relationship would degenerate to that level!


my marriage hasn't been smooth so I'm.not coming from a judgemental angle. I keep saying perhaps if we had known each other for a longer period I wont have married him as we are most incompatible. But some of these people have dated and known their spouses for years before marriage. One's husband even said he would kill her and dump on a gutter then tell family members he just couldn't find her! That's just wicked no evil. To your purported lover?


God help  we women in D.V matters oh!












 

Thursday, 10 March 2016

Breather!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Can't believe i'm only just typing my first post for the year in March.

Na wa oh!

It's amazing how we can get so so caught up with life and activities!

I had to take a sudden and hard decision. I quit my job!!!

Too many issues kept cropping up and i was sad and miserable. My whole life just seemed to be spiraling further out of control.

Coupled with the fact that at the end of last year i found out i was expecting a baby again.

I'm hoping the time out before baby's arrival will help me put things in perspective and get a grip towards starting over and so on!


Thursday, 3 December 2015

Master toilet?

Not sure what the landlord was thinking really but this is what the toilet and bathroom in the master bedroom of our former  house looks like!!!!









































Training tins#

Been "training" my waist all day...

Nor be small tin oh, "we" chicks dey try truly!

As for Lagos chicks who successfully wear those monsters for day on end.... i raise my buttocks to una!

To those with slim/flat bellies, your best bet is to ensure you keep it that way....

This weight loss meme na real wa!

Thursday, 26 November 2015

100kg

That moment when you step on the scale and your weight has skyrocketed to
...............drum rolls................... 100 KG *sighs*

Been barely able to sleep since this happened!!!!!!!

God help me

Friday, 30 October 2015

Water meme

For the past day and a half I've had 4 litres of water approximately.....

I'm really getting serious* with this healthy lifestyle meme...

Na God go help somebody, na so so piss since morning.

I wonder if that's a good sign? The pissing i mean, does i mean the fat is being flushed off?????? Because if na so then i can up the warrer to 5 litres daily sef LOL

It's been such a slow paced day. For some reason i can't recall many of the tasks i have to complete. Should have written them down abi? i kuku wrote them down just don't know if that's the full list and i also don't feel motivated to do the ones on the list sef

*sighs*

Make i go piss...

Anama bia :)

*that was Igbo/Ibo by the way :D

Thursday, 15 October 2015

Peppermint.....

I'm having some peppermint tea at the moment, hence the title LOL

My son asked me a few days back why i speak in a different tone when i'm addressing a group of people like in church or something. I asked him how exactly and he said like an American.... I had quite a good laugh...  he also added that why don't i speak like that at home? :D  Yeye boy.

Anyway he's still better than that yeye boy on you tube that picked a pack of sanitary towels while shopping with his mum at a supermarket. His words " Don't you use this for your butt"? then he added "sometimes"... you should have seen his face LOL

I'm amazed that the year has almost come to an end! As we almost always say, where did the days fly by to? Thankful i haven't been hospitalized even once not even the children or hubby!!!! We shouldn't take these things for granted. Not many people have it this smooth, despite how nice an exterior we may put up so many challenges exist around us!

Living in Lagos alone sef na work!!!!!!!

Weight nor gree go down oh. I've resorted to one or two meals  daily now! I'm hoping to reduce it to one meal eventually until the weight drops.... At a point i was almost getting resigned to being plump :D until i started to hear BP, chest and back pain etc etc i borrowed myself some sense! LOL

As for work, my boss is still driving my up the wall.... this year sha God will save me from all this brouhaha

Watched a movie on youtube the other day and a comment from someone who had also watched left me touched and reminded me of the greatness of the Almighty God.

The main actress in the movie had a dream that all her children will die, she prayed extensively and despite her prayers still experienced great tribulations and difficulty.

The commenter said that when we have dreams or revelations and pray to ward off the challenges, it  will not always prevent us from having the foretold difficult times, it's just to sometimes prepare us and give us strength to bear them! I was moved. Our God is great, even people who serve Him diligently may experience challenges but He will give grace and strength to pass through it all!!!!!!!!

To anyone going through a challenge, i say to you this day the Almighty God will not leave or forsake you.... You will have a breakthrough in Jesus name

XOXO!!!!

I'm outta here