.... i ran into him
It had been so so long
Almost didn't recognise him
He looked well, added some flesh to his skinny ass
I met him at some wedding
he was the best man and i fell in "love" almost immediately
Slept in his arms that night , we didn't get down or anything we just gisted till we fell asleep
The friendship continued
I went to see him in abuja, it was a fun week
Almost got ruined though
He discovered i had a boyfriend....
My plan was to leave said boyfriend for him
Some chick came to see him when i to spend the night with friends and left her skirt so i'd know she'd been there ;) LOL
Got back and he tells me about said chick but says they ain't dating because she's
..... too perfect
Anyway he moves back to Lagos and we continue seeing each other
we gisted for hours on the phone, looking back now i did most of the calling
I didn't mind really, i had abundant airtime :)
we took weekend trips out of Lagos often
Twas so much fun...
Attended his sister's wedding and someone asked if i was "the one" he quickly responds "Ah no ma, she's my aburo(little sister) "
Handwriting on the wall yeah?
Fluffy was too much in love to read meaning into all that
We came back from one of our fabulous outta town trips, he drops me off and heads off to his place
.... he calls me to ask if i know Ada who lives in London + a few other details
of course i know Ada she's my pal
It's her birthday today you know
My gosh i had forgotten my pal's birthday cause i was busy following man...
I wonder how he knows Ada but at that time i needed to call ada and wish her a happy birthday!!!
Ada arrives Naija a few days later
We're gisting and convo moves to her cousin Chinwe's boyfriend....
He's so this, he's so that... he works here and drives this car and lives here
Come oh, he fits into description of my lover boy!!!
Days later my pal deciphers that I and her cousin are shagging same boy...
Cousin i guess feels she's the real deal and keeps sending me messages like
"oh he says you're just his friends sister" "oh he says you guys ain't dating" "oh he says I'm going to be the mother of his child" etc etc
i decide to take a step back and just observe ....
Boy, of course is at this point out of reach....
when i've had enough of all the crap
I pay boy a visit and he says to me(summary)
"well there was no definition to our thing and bla bla bla..."
In shock i went back home and cried till i could cry no more
At some point in the midst of all this drama i discover some "i love you" type cards in his room and receive an ephiphany...
There's some third chick in the picture as well ...
Anyway Didn't see or hear from him for aeons after
Many months later he called to offer me a puppy, i was going to accept it but the doggie fell sick
so end of discussion....
He starts to call me and somehow we revisit the past, he's kinda sorry for what happened.
didn't mean to hurt me but he found himself in the triangle and decided to cut us all off so we could sort ourselves out!!!!
This kain na we the three chicks cause all the triangular mess
You can now imagine my shock when yesterday after we exchange pleasantries
He says "oh come and say hello to my iyawo"
and we walk to car and see KESI
The third chick in the triangle.....
Life and the shit it just dishes your way sometimes.....
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