Wednesday, 26 March 2008

What do you do....

.... when your maid insinuates, or rather says that your husband tried to molest her?

21 comments:

Aphrodite said...

I'll try to find out the truth first!

fluffycutething said...

@ Aphrodite- How please?

Afrobabe said...

SACK HER!!!

fluffycutething said...

@Afro- LOL Trust your own solution to be so so far off from everyone else's LOL

Shouldn't you confront your hussie at any point?

This thing actually happened to my colleague

NikkiSab said...

Ax her to tell me wat happened and den ax my husband wat happened on d said day. But sha dis na serious accusation o

Mojisola said...

Get rid of the maid and keep eye on husband.

It would be the girl's word against his and truly if he says no, even if he was telling the truth, I wouldn't believe him so why bother?

Besides, if the gal was so virtuous as to not give in, she'd leave anyway.

Afrobabe said...

Even if he did or did not try to molest her she can no longer stay...if or when I ask him he will hate the girl anyway....

to cut matter short just sack the girl and get a house boy!!!

ibilola said...

i'll go with mojisola & afobabe ...Let her go.

can't locate the truth...so just manage d fallout.

Just discovered ya blog & read all d posts (at work) - luvin it

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Ms. emmotions said...

gosh !!!

it may be true or false so you place safe and SACK HER PLSSSSS

Lolu Kush (Afronuts) said...

Send her away. then find out the truth

Jarrai said...

Ha!!! this is serious
Talk to her, talk to your husband. You need to find the truth..... either way she can't stay, the bond of trust has been tainted.

Came across your blog, nice read

fluffycutething said...

@Nikkisab- the 'axing' process itself is so so embarassing!!!!

@Mojisola- Long time!! that sounds like a good solution but it does make the husband in question look so "low"

@ Afro- u can't have houseboys if you have daughters oh please

@Ibilola- thanks for stopping by ;)

fluffycutething said...

@Adam- you may need to refresh my memory a bit more please....

@ms emmotions- the girl leaving is a given. My own problem is life with the hussie afterwards!!!

@ Lola Kush - I agree

@ Jarrai- Do you really think the average Naija man will own up if guilty?

Anonymous said...

Fluffy,

Update this blog now.....

We've waited too long for an update ahn! ahn!!!

I don't want to remind you again oh....

Mwah.....A lover of your blog

tboz said...

Its a hard call really.. and nothing will be d same again afterwards.

Like wise pple said earlier, one thing that must happen is that the girl leaves. How u handle ur hubby is really very dependent on the relationship between u two and how far u can push or willing to push things..cos the potential for disaster is high...

ejura said...

afrobabe's right you know. The girl can't stay on after that whether it's the truth or a lie. You hear her out, ask your hubby, [he may probably deny it or it may be a lie]then SACK her before she says she is pregnant!

Afrobabe said...

ok...will get an old woman to come do the work...he can shag her if he likes....

Now update this joint...

Abbie said...

Yikes! So what did your friend end up doing??

fluffycutething said...

@Anon- ok now i've updated ok.... LOL

@Ejura& Tboz- Seems d only wise solution really

@Afro- Old woman indeed rofl

@abbie- She was gonna keep the girl till she could find a replacement but the girl's "people" claimed her father died and took her away!!!
So all's well that ends well ;)

Ms. emmotions said...

didnt come back to conclude on this,

problem solved......act it didnt happen, rememba u sacke dthe maid cos u werent sure if it were true and u feel it deep down u just dont want a repeat...wait till u ve catch him !!!!!
meanwhile, act like it dosnt matter, if he is randy, somehow u would find out soon

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