Last night half way between drifting in and out of sleep, i got a text message from my friend "X" asking why i called her bobo without telling her...
Now she and the bobo are experiencing a strain in their relationship and i wanted to talk to the young man and just see if i could ease all the plenty tension or at least speak up for my friend. Because i know that even though it's not showing on her face, the pressure from this strain is getting to her!!!
Anyway he didn't pick and i forgot about it and even forgot to mention it to her( i was really tired yesterday and i honestly forgot).
Now he calls her, obviously having figured out what i wanted to talk to him about and maybe he was pretty upset. And then of course she got upset too!!
Anyway after several calls to her this morning which she didn't pick at first. She finally picks and says "oh she was quite upset that's why she didn't pick".
I apologised for meddling in her affairs and reiterated that i honestly meant well for her that's why i called him in the first place.
Now i feel so so silly because truly i meant well.
Then i'm sitting here and wallowing in my "low" and just wondering why i think i can solve everyone's challenges and i'm constantly advising people and wanting to do stuff for them and so on.
My other girlfriend says i should learn not to feel responsible for other adults' issues!!!
Maybe i really need to learn that my friends are not children or my children at that and let them be!!!!
Tis just that when people whine to me i "assume" it's because they want my advise or at least want me to deal with the situation!!!! Kind of anyway :)
Anyway i feel so so silly and bad right now :-(
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