Just sitting here musing over one of my most mortifying moments which occured two weeks ago
I've got this small cousin...
We're pretty "close"
She looks up to me as her older sis(she hasn't got any biological ones you see)
My then boyfriend and i were just "rabbits" we would get at it any and every where
So for both our good(s) we decide to keep a pack of rubbers at my place...
I hid it far far away, infact it was in the same envelope i kept my mints which were for spraying at every owambe i went that period.
THE 1st INCIDENT
So my other cousin is getting married and i'm running late as usual. LOL
So i grab the envelope, rubbers n all and rush off to the church
I think i manage to make the joining or something.
At some point we need to drop money in the collection bowl
so i turn to my small cousin and ask her to open my purse and get money from the envelope.
All this time i had totally forgotten the contraband in the envelope.
You can just imagine my shock when she starts pulling them out different colours-pink,yellow, black,blue,i think there was red too.
I went red, trust me my black skin went red.
Heck my siblings were sharing the pew with me plus my friends were there.
I just grabbed the envelope and ran out the church!!!!!
During my last holiday, my bestest friend (whose name i will spare you all) gave me KY jelly and some orgasm intensifying cream which i happily took back with me to Africa...
As usual I stashed it in some bag at the far corner of my closet, ok sorry ward robe...
On this fateful day, my long time "disease" of arranging clothes decided to rear it's head.
So i emptied the ward robe even though it was well arranged anyway and started to arrange.
The next day i was still arranging and this my small cousin came to visit!!!
So she's sitting on my bed, just rifling through the clothes
When she grabs this bag...
Now my back is turned and i didn't even remember i had such goods in my stuff!!!
Sha, she pulls out the gel and cream and asks me
"Sis, wetin be this?????????"
Chai i nearly died....
I quickly stuttered the most hopeless response ever " oh that, my friend gave me to try" I thought adding "when i marry would be absolutely pathetic ROFL>>>>>>>
Now since Afrobabe says these disasters happen in threes,
I'm crossing my fingers on the third "disaster" to happen
I hope she will not actually catch me in the sack sha
Because that one- my friend na die i go just die...
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