Things have definetely taken a different shape from when our parents were nursing you know
Just the other day my friend and I were wondering who will bathe our grandchildren considering that we barely know how to bathe our own infants right now LOL
i was forced to start bathing Ayobami when he was like 2 weeks old and i'm sure he was unclean for like 2 days till i got the hang of it and even remembered i had one oyinbo contraption called a baby bather to make things easier!!!!
The advent of baby bathers has just made it worse... i imagine myself telling my daughter in law where to buy the things and reading the manuals to them LOL
As against my dear mum and mum-in-law who are around to religously wash their grandchildren and do it with such skill, plus massage and all!!!!
Then there's this singing to babies meme
I just don't see myself getting the hang of it
My mum has formed all sorts of songs in the past month but my head just goes blank when i try it and instead i blow fone to my son and tell him "Mummy's here" when he's crying.. :D
Even his father has some village songs to sing to him when he's yelling LOL
As for public breast feeding that's such a huge no no
Even though a number of my hussie's friends have "caught" me bra down, feeding and i just thought scuttling off with boobs hanging out would make the situation more dastardly so i sat my butt there quietly LOL
Of course those are the times Ayobami would clutch to me like he hasn't eaten for 2 days and refuse to end his meal :)
Kai thank God for breast pump oh because i just no fit comot that thing for church or party biko
Na wa, God help me be a good mama sha!!!
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