Thursday, 3 January 2013

Loving to excesses?

These are just some of my random thoughts on a matter of love I recently stumbled on!

So mrs X is your regular joe! Dated her mr for a couple of years before settling with him and so on. Happy at least to an extent. Only snag is that mr isn't doing too well financially. So she's more or less breadwinner! Not an unusual story abi?

They decide to relocate for greener pastures and mr's finances pick up though she's still doing the heavy lifting. Then maybe because he has some "change" to spare he begins to womanize.mrs X is very worried, she is frantic infact. She's never seen her mr this way before. They start to quarrel over his late nights and odd phone calls.

One night it gets really bad and he hits her and hurts her in the process.she wants to leave him. I say well you can't leave  if  you aren't empowered ie you'll have to rent a place, n care for yourself at least until things are sorted. So be patient maybe things will even eventually be sorted.

Imagine my shock when she said she had a discussion with him and pleaded(that's my headache particularly) with him to work things out!

While I am happy that they're now at peace, I was a bit disappointed that she resorted to pleading. Is this a case of stooping to conquer or plain foolishness???
Hope it's not too early in the year for this kind of talk oh LOL

2 comments:

mstizzle said...

No hun, it's not too early for this kind of conversation. When people say humans can't change, I say it's a lie. People change from good to bad and from bad to good all the time.

your frined needs to pray. She probably pleaded just for peace' sake. I pray she gets that peace and I pray he doesn't hit her again and kill her in the process. They need to be counselled and she needs to pray hard for her man's heart to be set aright.

Fluffycutething said...

Thanks for stopping by and I wish you a happy new year!

Indeed your comment is apt and full of wisdom...

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